Getting married is a normal thing. If we don’t fight it means the couple is lying or their relationship is not strong, it is normal to have fights in the family, but forget it, correct the mistake and move on.
But due to some mistakes in the family the peace of the house gets destroyed, these mistakes are generally found in all the families, they are the problems.
1. Exploring an old idea
It’s okay to regret past mistakes, but repeating the same thing over and over, or repeating old things when something small comes up, only makes the problem worse.
2. Lack of physical contact
There should be physical satisfaction between husband and wife, but if physical contact between the two reduces due to busyness in work, mental stress etc. then problems in marriage will increase. So give a romantic hug and kiss before sleeping, even if there is no physical contact. Both should try to spend time together, even if they are apart due to work.
3. Allowing third parties to interfere in your relationship
By doing this the family will be completely destroyed. If there is any problem between you two then both of you should solve it, even your parents should not come to give their opinion, if any third person will interfere between you two then your problem will increase further. Will go.
4. Expecting your partner to understand your feelings
This is a big mistake, if you need something don’t expect them to understand you, tell them what you want, share your feelings openly, this can prevent resentment.
5. The mentality that I have to win the battle
If two people talk in the same way then there will be a big fight, it is not wrong for one to lose for the welfare of his family, it is not necessary for only one to lose, the one who is at fault should accept his mistake. By doing this you can avoid any big fight.
6. Lack of transparency about financial life
Financial matters should be shared openly, both should know about money problems and savings. In this way, if any problem arises, both of them can face the problem together.
7. Making decisions alone
Whatever decision is taken in the family, both should be taken together. Whatever may be the matter, two people should discuss among themselves and take a decision. But if you take decisions alone, it means you are not respecting your spouse, family problems will be more.
8. Ignoring the problem to be solved
Some problems need to be solved, like a crater covered with ash can burn your family, so if there are some problems, they should be addressed if they are problems that need to be solved.
