Take special care of these things in raising daughters

It is a big responsibility to raise children properly, especially when it is about daughters. The changing thinking of society and the methods of parenting also change over time. In such a situation, parents should not only pay attention to their behavior but also see what they are saying to their daughters. Many times we inadvertently speak such things that can reduce the confidence of daughters and leave negative effects in their mind. Let’s know what are the things that parents should avoid to say to their daughters.

1. Compare to son again and again

Both son or daughter, both have their own importance. Comparing daughters to their brothers can fill them with inferiority. When the girls get to hear again and again why they are not like their brother, it can weaken their confidence. Therefore, instead of comparing children, appreciate their different features.

2. “If you have a daughter, learn household chores”

It is often said to daughters that they should come home work. But this thinking can make the perception in the minds of daughters that their main responsibility is only to handle the house. Household chores are not only the responsibility of daughters, but it is an important life skill which should be a son or daughter, everyone should come.

3. “Learn to be like girls”

Girls of old age often get to hear that they should be “like girls”. This can fill them with self-respect and weaken their decision-making ability. Girls should give an opportunity to grow according to their choice and interests, not trying to mold them in a particular structure.

4. “Learn to tolerate if you are a girl”

In many homes, girls are taught that they should endure everything, even if something is happening to them. This thinking is wrong. Teach the daughters to speak out of their words and if something is happening to them, they can raise their voice against them.

5. “Girls are alien money”

Often daughters get to hear that they are “alien wealth” and they will one day leave their maternal home and go to the in -laws’ house. It can sit in their mind that they are alien in their own house. Instead, make them feel that they are an integral part of your family and will always be.