“Every setback is a setup for a comeback” is one quote that I have always lived by during my transition journey to Australia.
My transition was smoother than expected despite earlier setbacks. When I said earlier, set back let me take back to you my previous journey, which changed my life tragically. Hailing from Gujarat, India, my life took an unimaginable turn when a tragic car accident claimed my parents’ lives when I was just 18. It was a journey that should have been a routine drive with my family but instead became a life-altering event.
The accident occurred on a remote road just 38 minutes from their destination in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia, where my father worked as a petrochemical engineer. I was riding in the front seat, sharing a joyful evening with my parents. At my mother’s suggestion, I lay down in the back to rest, unbuckled. Moments later, disaster struck. Our car collided with a truck on a road locals ominously called “Death Road.” My parents were killed instantly, while I was gravely injured but survived.
World changed
After regaining consciousness in a hospital, my world had changed forever. Faced with devastating grief and severe injuries, including a mangled leg and a broken face, I was forced to find strength within myself. Despite the tragedy, I saw this moment as a catalyst for change, an opportunity to start anew.
Determined to honour my parents’ memory, I applied for and won a scholarship to study biomedical science at Monash University in Melbourne. Moving halfway across the world, I built a new life from the ashes of my old one, pursuing education with the same dedication my parents had instilled in me.
In Australia, my uncle and aunt welcomed me warmly, and Monash’s International Student Engagement team ensured I felt supported. Attending the orientation festival postlockdown was a special moment that made me feel right at home.
You might be wondering why I chose Australia, because Australia’s stellar reputation in healthcare and research aligned perfectly with my goals in biomedical science. Melbourne’s safety, excellent public transport, and vibrant multiculturalism made it an ideal destination. Monash University’s membership in the Group of Eight and its leadership in innovation further solidified my choice.
When I talk about my peers at Monash University, it’s been incredible because, as a selectively extroverted person, it took me time to make friends, but my peers were always welcoming. Group projects and lab work fostered collaboration and inclusivity, making the environment both supportive and engaging. And coming from Nalanda International School, I was familiar with an international curriculum. However, Australia’s practical, problemsolving approach was a refreshing change. Openbook exams encouraged deep understanding, though they were challenging at times.
Challenges faced
Homesickness hit me initially, but engaging in soccer, university clubs, and societies helped. Winning elections and becoming part of leadership roles allowed me to build a family away from home, making Melbourne feel like a second home.
Another challenge I have faced is food. As a vegetarian, finding preferred food can be tricky, but Melbourne’s Indian restaurants and learning quick recipes have been helpful. Securing accommodation in a competitive market requires diligence. Raising these concerns with Monash led to expanded support and resources for students navigating housing challenges.
Now another side of being an international student is managing finances. I usually worked on my weekends, which helped manage expenses while leaving on weekdays for studies. Australia’s high minimum wage ensures financial stability. Budgeting and prioritising essentials allow me to maintain a balanced lifestyle and save for future goals.
The author is pursuing Bachelor of Biomedical Science (scholars program) from Monash University, Australia
