Relationships are a very important part of human life. But over time, the definition of these relationships, the importance given to them and the ways of expressing them has changed a big change. While earlier romantic relationships were openly accepted by the society, now many people like to keep their relationships private. Many relationships are limited to both of them, which are not mentioned in public or between relatives. Social media has made this picture even more misleading. Here new trends and codewords have emerged for relationships, which have become quite popular among today’s younger generation. These trends have completely changed our attitude of looking at relationships. Love, intimacy, commitment and responsibility are now expressed in different ways. By breaking the traditional structure of old relationships, the younger generation has created an independent and distinctive dating culture. Which is more individual, experimental and often based on unwritten rules.
In this type of relationship, love is hidden. Neither relatives are told nor any social media posts are posted. This relationship is like being hidden in the pocket, so it is called ‘pocketing’.
Situation
This relationship does not fit in any clear definition. Both want each other, but without any responsibility or label. We can call it “status-determination”.
Fleeting
A relationship started just to spend time. There is no love or commitment in it. None of the two takes this relationship seriously nor expects to settle in each other’s life.
Benching function
In this method, one person keeps the other as permanent backup. Just like the player is seated on the bench in a game. It is not decided to pursue the relationship, but the other person is not completely away.
Evil spirit
In this type, the person suddenly starts speaking less and eventually disappears completely. The relationship ends without any clear reason.
Zombififying
A person in contact first, who suddenly disappeared, returns again after a few months. He behaves as before, as if nothing has happened.
Breadcharbing
Slight attention is paid to keeping this type of relationship alive. This is a method of sending a message from time to time to the other person without complete communication or commitment.
