There are many types of problems in everyday life, which are often associated with relationships. In such a situation, it is important that we understand how we have to respond or respond. Know the solutions to some common problems from the psychologist.
1. Pressure of worship
Problem:
My mother believes in worship and rituals. They are expected that all members should also be active like them. When I avoid them, she gets angry and starts screaming. How do I face this situation?
– Pooja Singh, Patna
Advice:
Faith in God is personal, and everyone has their own faith. When your thinking is different in worship, it is natural to cause stress. Your family members, especially your mother, insist on worshiping due to her fear and faith. I suggest that you sometimes worship them in their way instead of arguing with them. In this way, you can avoid disputes and maintain peace at home.
2. Stress in married life
Problem:
I have been married for three years, and I have a five -month -old son. I am studying and financially depend on my parents, due to which I take every decision by asking them. This makes my wife angry with me and she is not talking to me. How do I face this situation?
Advice:
Your problem is really serious. It is true that you are under pressure from many sides. However, it is important to respect your parents’ advice and wife’s feelings. You give emotional support to your wife, even if you are not financially independent. Tell them that you respect the parents’ words, but also give priority to their feelings. Try to spend time with each other, such as going for a walk or going to a religious place. In this way, you can balance your relationship and make the wife feel that she is important in this house.
3. Violation of husband’s confidentiality
Problem:
My husband shares our words with his friends, causing me inconvenience. His friends jokingly comment about me, which I do not like. What should I do?
– Ragini Tiwari
Advice:
The relationship between husband and wife is based on mutual trust and secrecy. To handle this situation, talk to your husband clearly. Tell them that you do not want them to share your mutual things with someone else. It is also important that you control your gesture and learn to ignore their words. If he does not change his habit, stop sharing his personal issues with them and increase the scope of new people in your life, so that you can share your mind with another friend or close relative.
